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Hanging Strangers


Friendship or Love

Friendship or Love

 

Sa pamamagitan ng isang simpleng friend request ko, bumigay siya at doon nagsimula ang lahat. Sabi ko, “Kailangan ko ‘tong subukan. Kailangan ako ang gumawa ng first move kasi ako naman ang nangangailangan“. Dahil mabilis nga ang naging response niya, dahan-dahan na lumalim ang relasyong sa ami’y namamagitan. Alam kong nagkakamali ka ng iniisip mo ngayon tungkol sa amin, hindi po naging kami lilinawin ko lang po ha (ang dami kasing sabit hehehe). Naging friends lang po talaga kami, ngunit ramdam ko naman na nandoon yung interest niya sa akin na more than friends kahit di pa niya sabihin (sa gwapo ko ba namang ito LOL). Araw-araw nga, lumalawak na ang aming napag-uusapan; araw-araw, mas lalo ko siyang nakikila at mas lalo siyang nahihiwagaan sa pagkatao ko. I’m giving her kasi an impression na hotheaded ako, an impression na ang weirdo kong tao, at an impression na hindi ako mabait at hindi dapat mahali’t pagkatiwalaan. Sabi niya, “bakit mo ‘to ginagawa? Be true to yourself dahil I will not judge you. Narito ako para umintindi sa’yo (ang cute lang di ba?)”. Alam kong tama siya, ngunit sana makuha niya na hindi ganun kadali ang lahat. Sa tamang panahon, dadating din kami sa puntong yun na handa na kami sa anumang responsibilidad. Walang takot. Walang pressure. Walang hesitation.

Summing these up, all we just wanted is to create a so called “new generation friendship” with a foundation of strong thrust but unfortunately, we’re caught in a situation where our trusts are tested at ang alab ng tapang ay patuloy na hinahamon. What will be the ending of our story? How I wish we will not end up as hanging strangers.

WARNING: Don't talk to strangers.

WARNING: Don’t talk to strangers.

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Noong una ko s’yang makita, di ko alam kung anu ang nararamdaman ko; kakaiba kasi ang pintig ng aking puso. Simula nun, parang parati ko na syang hinahanap at pangarap na muling magkasalubong ang aming landas. Hindi naman kj si moment dahil madalas ko nga syang nakakasalubong sa campus namin. Maingat ko syang ninanakawan ng tingin; mula mukha hanggang pababa hehehe. Di ko alam kung bakit ko yun ginagawa basta ang alam ko masaya ako. Iba ang saya.
Lumipas ang mga araw at buwan, nakakalungkot isipin dahil hindi ko na sya nakikita sa campus. Ilang buwan pa ang lumipas bago ko matanggap na hindi ko na siguro sya makikita. Ang dahilan pala ay nakapagtapos na sya. Isa na syang survivor! Nakita ko kasi picture nya sa isang yearbook. At kahit pa ganun ang nangyari, thankful ako dahil ngayon alam ko na pangalan nya. Nagtry akong i-search pangalan nya sa facebook at yun nahanap nga sya. Then, wow ang next na moment dahil parang unli kong naview-view mga photos nya na hmhmhmm ang saya…Subalit ang masakit nga lang nalaman ko din na in relationship na sya. Ang sakit man pero alam ko na masaya sya kaya masaya na din ako.
Uy mga friends, mga kablog, at iba pa dyan, kung nakarelate kayo magcomment naman dyan. Ngayon mismo! Tnx


Subject: A Letter for an FB friend


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10:47 am, Wed April 4 2012

Dearest FB friend,

I could still remember that moment finding you on my FB’s “People You May Know”. Because of that relevant number of “mutual friends” we have, I totally decided to add you as an FB friend. Today, you just came into my mind. :p Anyway, thank you for accepting my friend request; I truly appreciate it even if confirming me doesn’t make me as your friend like exactly what the word “friend” truly means. But I’m still hoping that we could find something worth having to hold on to despite from this too weak relationship between us. How I wish that through my status updates and by reading your status updates, everything would lead to “closer” ties; after all, we could write and talk anything and everything under the sun (including even trivial things like waking up, taking a short walk, eating breakfast, going to work, watching tv, and everything else hehehe). With just a single click, I could easily let you know what’s in my mind. But I know that in a case like this, maybe I could not really create a great impact on your life as a friend, but I’ll promise to stay here not just because I wanted to be “liked” out of my posts, but because I wanted to take this as a challenging step for starting a better change in our generation’s definition of what so called “friendship in the Age of Facebook”; and this letter is actually a simple start. For sure, I am not just an isolated case; because somewhere out there on this global village, I know someone else is doing the same thing — same as what you are also doing. Let’s all start it by ourselves before doing some attempts of changing the whole world.
On a lighter note, let’s just all be happy being part of this promising generation where creating connections is at our fingertips; being updated on what’s happening with our friends and expressing our own stand on issues that matter to them are all easier to have now even without setting a foot outside the bedroom. But FB friend, always remember to think before you click! Okay? Ingats! 🙂

Never fade,
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